Does crying irritate you? Would you have a problem with changing dirty diapers, cleaning up spit and vomit, and staying up late if you're little one becomes sick? Do you have the patience to teach them how to hold their bottle or eat on their own when they get to that certain stage? What about when it's time to teach them how to walk? I hope you understand that there's potty training that comes along with raising a child as well. Children have to go to the doctors to get their shots and checkups and, when they get a little older, you're responsible for taking them to the dentist too.
There are SO many things that come with raising a child, please understand this. It's not all fun and games. I can't tell you how many people I've heard saying, "I can't wait to dress my little one in cute clothes." REALLY, that's it? Reality check! Dressing kids in cute clothes is at the bottom of the list, and depending on the age of the child, you'll have to change their clothes several times a day. God forbid if you have a child that's sickly. You're going to have to have the compassion, strength, and love to nurture them through. It's not promised that your child will be healthy. Many women have complications that are unforeseen.
So, does having a child before you're ready sound fun now? I don't think so. Make sure that you're ready to be a parent before you decide to bring a precious child into this world. It wouldn't be fair to them if you're not.
Think it through carefully. Having a child is NOT a game. It's a very serious decision that you're going to have to make. Make sure that you're prepared to put them first. You're children should not come second to what you still want to do.
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People are so quick to say that they want a baby. But, do you know what it takes to raise a baby? It takes dedication, compassion, love and commitment.
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